Teens & Sexting

You’ve heard the horror stories and read the harrowing statistics, but you never imagined your child would be the one sexting. When you find out what’s going on, you may feel defeated and terrified. You may also feel sad, confused, and even angry. While these emotions are normal, they can be undoubtedly challenging.

Teens and Sexting What to Do If Your Child Is Sending Inappropriate Picture-2

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It’s no secret that the relationship between teens and sexting is complicated and dangerous. However, as a parent, you play a profound role in helping your child. If you discover that your child is sending inappropriate pictures, several steps must be taken.

Acknowledge the Issue Directly

This isn’t the time to act passively or pretend like you accidentally “found something.” Teen sexting is a serious issue, and it needs to be treated as such.

Identify exactly what you noticed and when you noticed it. Aim to be objective without criticizing or shaming. Your child is already in a vulnerable position, so if they don’t feel like you’re on their side, they may withdraw or lash out at you.

Identify the Motive

Teen sexting doesn’t happen randomly. Your teen is choosing to send these images for a reason. Ask yourself what you imagine your child is seeking. Approval from others? The desire to fit in with their friends? The need to explore their sexuality?

If you’re unsure of the motive, consider asking your child when you acknowledge the issue. However, make sure you do so gently and non-confrontationally.

Review the Consequences

There are no current sexting laws in Idaho. However, that doesn’t exempt your child from potential legal consequences. For instance, HB 555, which was proposed in 2016, would classify sending or receiving explicit images as a misdemeanor.

Moreover, the consequences extend beyond black-and-white laws. Be sure to emphasize that a single image can be shared with millions of people with the click of a button, creating a sense of permanence. Therefore, inappropriate pictures can impact a child’s self-esteem, social relationships, and future job opportunities and reputation.

Discuss Sex and Safety Directly

Sending inappropriate images doesn’t necessarily mean your child is having sex. That said, most of our youth are learning about their sexuality online rather than from trusted sources or their parents.

Regardless of your own beliefs about teenage sex, it’s essential you have an honest conversation with your child.

By conveying your openness to talk about it, you model having a nonjudgmental attitude, which may make your child feel more inclined to share personal details with you.

Emphasize how they can protect themselves and keep their bodies safe. Review the importance of having both physical and emotional boundaries. Also, let them know they can come to you anytime if they have questions.

Teens and sexting remain a complex issue for everyone. As a parent, you can help your child by staying informed and aware of the implications.